Topics covered on this call:
- She doesn’t understand how she could’ve ever made such a mistake
- She still has anxiety when it comes to relationships and men
- She feels that her actions defied her character and made no sense
- The relationships she had prior to this one were all positive
- Figuring out why she actually fell in love with him (cutting through the fog of denial)
- How abusive relationships progress
- Why an abused woman doesn’t notice the abuse until it’s too late
- She has lost trust in herself
- What causes people to be abusive
- Gaining perspectives on her ex husband’s real motives
- How her ex orchestrated an environment in which she would become powerless
- Finding the core emotion that we present before the abusive relationship manifested
- What the manifestation of an abusive relationship was actually showing her
- Aligning with the positives of the situation that she’s been blind to
- She feels inadequate because she’s now divorced
- Shifting into a better feeling perspective on being divorced
- What to do to apply this process to anything else she feels guilty about
